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You have this amazing girl you have known for a while. She is beautiful, elegant, intelligent, funny and doesn’t seem to ever be out your mind. Surely, you want her to be into you too.
Here are 9 simple psychological tricks to get her to like you. First off, I want to say that these tricks are ethical and aren't manipulative but will in the end make the girl subconsciously be attracted to and want to be around you more. So let’s get started:
1. Have Your Own Life
This is like literally the foundation of starting a great relationship and will give you the starting base to make her like you.
Think of it this way, if someone tries to sell you this amazing new book with all kinds of secret life formulas that will make you rich, happy, get a six pack in 3 days and become a new world leader, and the marketing and packaging of the book looks great but then you open and read it; all it says is life is short you don't need these things buy more books for better advice.
Imagine your disappointment.
2. Have an Interesting Hobby or Passion
Here's another super interesting tip that is hard to find elsewhere on the internet. Literally having at least one passion will make you seem more interesting plus it adds respect to tip number one, you're starting your own life.
Your hobby can be anything that you're passionate about just make sure it's true passion and not faked. If I said I love playing Tennis during my free time and I actually didn’t, the sparkle won’t be there and the girl won’t see it. When you are actually passionate about something, your girl would notice.
There is something infinitely sexy about a guy with an intense passion towards something, it could be programming, cooking, skating, gaming, drawing, reading or playing instrument and anything else that suits your fancy. Just put in the time.
3. Have Great Hygiene
This is definitely the number one tip to instantly make a girl attracted, smell good. I don’t even mean smell amazing, you just have to smell decent. You don’t have to douse yourself with half a gallon of Nivea or Axe body spray, you just have to smell presentable.
Take your favorite cologne (Or go buy one if you have none), spray two squirt or three squirts max on your cloth. I recommend one each on your wrists and one on your neckline. This is all it takes to smell great and girls fall for great smelling guys all the time.
4. Ask Her To Do Things For You
This is definitely a secret tip and maybe even a bit manipulative but definitely not anything evil or negative, just ask her to do something for you. There’s a psychological effect called the Benjamin Franklin effect that goes like this, you ask a girl to do something for you, she does it and in the end she subconsciously likes you just a bit more.
You might be asking why though. Well, when we do stuff for people our brain thinks since we're doing something for them we must like them now. Benjamin Franklin (One of the founding fathers of United States) uses this techniques on his rivals and political opponents to get them to like him more.
Also, there's something called the consistency bias, after someone has done something for you a couple of times they're more likely to do more just because they don’t want to look inconsistent.
5. Make Her Laugh
This is a great tip and you may not think you are funny but the truth is everyone can be funny if they try. Girls love laughing and the more that you can make them laugh the better chance you stand around them. Ability to make a girl laugh proves that you are intellectually strong and humorous which is a desirable trait in a future mate.
6. Be Her Friend
Now, there’s a big difference between being a friend and being friend-zoned. The friend zone is such a tricky place to fall into. Falling into this can be frustrating and demeaning. Move close to her and be her friend but make sure you avoid dropping in the friend zone.
Don’t be afraid to show interest in her, always get flirty in the cause of your friendship, and avoid being too needy or too nice. Do things other guys won’t do, you can leave a short flirty note in her bag or talking through problems and sympathizing with her. Infact, in doing these you are practically half way in dating her.
7. Break The Touch Barrier
Here’s a good subconscious psychological tip that works amazingly well in many situations. Touch her shoulder, ask her for something and grab it out of her hand or make up some games that requires a touch and play with her.
The idea is to make her know that you are willing to touch her in a non-sexual way because you feel comfortable around her and to get her reaction. If she seems disgusted or scared, don’t touch her anymore.
8. Tell Her secrets
Telling her secrets, something personal about you that not very many people know will open door for trust and as you tell her more things about you she will notice that you trust her and in turn she will trust you more.
Psychologically, we like and trust people who trust us first because we have a natural instinct to be wary of new people and not to trust them. So when you prove that you trust her, she will start to reciprocate in the same fashion.
9. Give Her All of Your Attention
In a world where your attention can go anywhere, it’s one of the most valuable thing you can give a girl. If you truly want her, you’ve got to pay real attention to her. Look her in the eyes when she's talking to you and make mental note of all that she’s talking about, if you can mention it in later conversations she will feel special and starts to enjoy your presence.
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